Women doing it their own way. Pay it forward!!!
Posted by Janelle Manton on October 7, 2008 · 1 Comment
Hi dear friends,
I just finished an incredible weekend working on the ‘Breakthrough to Success’ weekend with Chris Howard. Many of you may know that I am a Master Performance Coach for this organisation and I say with great pride, what a pleasure it is to be part of such an incredible company that values quality contribution and education.
I was fortunate enough to be able to articulate in front of the whole group (of about 800 people) my greatest breakthrough - that being, as a ’single mum’ able to heal and manage my emotional states to the point of feeling gratitude, and the multitude of skills and strategies I’ve learnt and implemented’ to create wealth and a secure income for myself and children.
As a mum doing it on her own, I’ve gone about raising my kids as best I can- like any mother would do. I mean, I’ve just done what I had to do in order to keep my kids safe, fed and with good health. My only goal at one stage in my past, was to get out of the Centrlink circus so I could feel and be independent, so I set about achieving that outcome with massive determination. I was going to do what ever it took to move forward, increase my self esteem and feel personal pride once again…. I had no idea that my ’speaking out’ would have such a huge positive impact on the many mums and other women ‘out there’ doing it on their own.
Over the course of the weekend I was approached by many women, some just wanted to hug me and say thankyou for inspiring them and giving them hope. Others asked, how did I do it, make it through to the otherside of happiness and success…?
My answer is this:
SELF BELIEF and SELF LOVE - I know I am worthy of such a precious gift
DETERMINATION - I know I deserve more and will stop at nothing to succeed and contribute to my family’s and others happiness
EDUCATION - I knew I needed more, so went after it with serious conviction
COMMITMENT - I knew I needed to decide what I wanted instead, so I made a promise to never stop until I succeed (what ever that means to me)
SUPPORT - I realised I had to surround myself with successful people, so I set about networking and meeting new people who would empower me and hold me to a higher standard
FEROCIOUS COMMITMENT TO MY PERSONAL GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT - I know I will never stop expanding who I am, uncovering my limitations and blasting them away, so I can have more of everything I desire and want…
My journey is far from complete, I believe, once you start on the path to being empowered and inspired, you can never stop, just like you can’t unlearn something you’ve learnt. Once you reach a new paradigm of thinking , I believe you have a natural desire to want more. And so it goes….
If you know a mum who is doing it on her own, then please share this will her, get her tapped into this resource, support her in moving forward by encouraging her involvement. I could never have gotten this far without the help of many incredible people who gave of themselves. I am indebted, grateful and full of love because of the decisions I made sometime ago. I now appreciate the magnitude of my limitlessness…
A few questions to get you thinking about what next:
WHAT WOULD YOU BE DOING IF YOU HAD NO LIMITING BOUNDARIES?
WHAT WOULD IT REALLY TAKE FOR YOU TO GET INSPIRED TO GROW AND MOVE FORWARD?
WHAT WOULD IT TAKE FOR YOU TO TAKE ACTION, RIGHT NOW?
WHAT ARE YOU THANKFUL AND GRATEFUL FOR?
WHAT DO YOU DESERVE THAT YOU DON’T FEEL YOU CURRENTLY HAVE?
HOW LONG ARE YOU GOING TO WAIT TO GET IT? Now is the time!
It’s time to go out into the world and start asking the right questions. Ask for help. Ask someone who is already doing what you want to do to mentor you and assist you in getting a start. Tap into FREE resources, Teleseminars, webinars, eBooks etc. There are plenty of people in the world just waiting to help another…..
All you have to do is decide on what it is you want from now on! Now don’t get me wrong, there is much I had to actually do myself, I was a willing particpant in my personal growth. The journey is not one you can sit back and watch - it requires your full participation.
I am very grateful for this past weekend. I have learnt that I should be speaking out much more often, that my contribution is of great value to many women, especially mothers. Thank you to those men and women who were there walking with me and sometimes holding my hand…..
I will now ‘pay it forward’!!!
I INVITE YOU TO REGISTER FOR MY ‘LOSE THE BITCH, LET’S GET RICH’ Teleseminar next week. It’s totally FREE for you, just because!
Can I ask you to ‘PAY IT FORWARD’ and invite your girlfriends along to join in - it could be just what they need to feel supported, inspired and motivated!
With warm regard and so much love…
Yours, Real and Raw,
Janelle Manton
Director
Top Secret Women’s Business
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