The Ravenous Cougar

She is in her late 30’s and could even be approaching her 50’s and beyond.  She is assertive, well travelled, experienced in dealing with her evolving emotions and comfortable with her beloved body.  The modern ‘Cougar’ woman is seeking more, she is energetic, full of zest for life, craves vibrance and vulnerable connection that comes with unjaded innocence. She has had a colourful life to date, and is sure about what she wants.

The Cougar’s inhibitions have disappeared and she goes after what she wants.  She does not play games but simply asks for more of what she needs.  The Cougar knows who she is, has reached a paradigm in life that brings value to others, she is sexually experienced and has a ravenous need to have her body explored, devoured and enjoyed, and lives the laws of reciprocity… She knows herself too well and has a deep, yearning desire to share herself with a mate that will cherish her as much as she cherishes herself.  She is courageous yet soft and feminine, she moves with volition and with intention….  Her body is like that of a Goddess, soft, warm, mature, lived in and danced in… She owns her temple and knows how to use it. She will milk you if you let her…

She will milk you if you let her…

She will nurture you, if you let her. She will engulf you, if you let her.  She will get under your skin and lead the way, if you let her.  She will teach you things you never thought possible and take you to places you have only ever dreamed of, if you let her.  She will ‘up the anti’, raise the standard, deepen your resolve, if you let her….  She will take you on a journey toward enlightenment,  connect you with your mind, body and soul, if you let her…. She will ride you like a wild insatiable animal and kiss you like never before, if you let her.  She will show you passion, if you let her… And she will curl up and cry in your arms, if you let her….

Once upon a time I thought that this was a futile relationship, that of a young man and a more mature woman was a dead end and wrong…  Now I know, from personal experience,  that a cougar experience could be the most profound connection, most eye opening experience you both may ever enjoy.  If we as humans, chose to really live in this moment, right here and now, we would realise that any encounter, any connection is worthy of noticing - for a reason, season or a lifetime…

An opportunity is just that, an opportunity to learn even more about ourselves, another and share a unique bond…  There is more than one way to enjoy a relationship and in our changing world where the only boundaries are the ones we impose, why would you say no to such perfection?  A connection is a connection, an experience is just an experience - until we add meaning to it (be it our own or society’s).  I chose to live in the ‘hope of the wish fulfilled’ and if I ask the universe to bring me love and it comes in a youthful, spirited, spunky package, I will have the grace to simply say thank you!

Here’s to being a Cougar and ‘owning’ yet another facet of being a miraculous and magical ‘woman’!

Go Cougars…  Grrr!

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