The Sealed Section Retreat - Frequently Asked Questions

Have you ever purchased a magazine that had a ‘Sealed Section; and you couldn’t wait to get home to rip it open and read it… That is exactly how I feel about The Sealed Section Retreat!   

‘The Sealed Section’ Women’s only Retreat is available at the end of July… But I warn you, you are going to want to ‘Rip it Open’ and get there now…

 Hello Gorgeous,

The Sealed Section Retreat is brought to you proudly by Janelle Manton the Director and Founder Top Secret Women’s Business.  It is my vision to build and create a world where women and men OWN who they truly are and find comfort in revealing themselves Real and Raw because ‘real world change’ starts from the inside out! And true happiness is your birthright. Is is not?

Before I get into the nitty gritty of The Sealed Section and why you should join me by attending, I want to share why the retreat is so important for me to share with you.

I have spent my life searching for who I am… My education was all girls Catholic School which left me with very limited views on my sexuality.  I thought liking sex was wrong,  sex was for the fallen ones.  I confused sex with love after being molested in my primary years by a foster brother and spent much time thinking and feeling dirty for what had happened.  I have swung to extremes with my sexuality since my teens and have learned over many years to embrace all of who I am - the good the bad and the naughty.  The most important element I have discovered is how powerful sexual energy is and how blessed we are to have such feminine power at my fingertips and how ancient the worship of femininity goes back…

Have you ever wondered who you are and get the feeling you are so much bigger than you are currently giving yourself credit for?

The consequences of not being Real and Raw in your adult life are high!    I was holding myself back in my career and especially in my personal relationships,  not stepping up, not speaking out,  not loving and admiring my body, not having uninhibited sex and rarely embracing my sexuality without guilt.   The past 6 years have been a deep journey of discovery, clearing the past, growing up, owning who I am - especially my sexuality and ability to be a sensual woman… I have studied in-depth the realm of ‘womanhood’, our history, our ancient past and our bright future and what I have discovered is collaborated into an experiential 2 and a half day retreat called The Sealed Section. 

I have worked with women for 17 years and have poured my knowledge into The Sealed Section Retreat. This is a journey into the deep spiritual realms of being a woman. It’s about developing your sensuality, owning your sexuality and embracing the strengths that reside within your feminine energy and releasing the past - your experiences and your conditioning. Sex is not a dirty word… It is your birthright to enjoy your body and sex life…

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Most commonly asked questions

Who is The Sealed Section for?

It is for any woman who wants to celebrate being a REAL woman. Who wants a deeper level of intimacy in her relationships including herself. If you are a professional woman, you may need to find balance in your life by increasing your femininity and learning how to cultivate your Grrr Factor - relieving you of overwhelm and exhaustion.  If you are a new mum and want to learn how to reconnect with your changing body and your changing relationship with your partner - The Sealed Section is a must.  If you are a single gal and want are looking for a partner, this could be the perfect way for you to release the past so you are more ‘open’ to being loved and more loving than ever before…

What are the main benefits of me investing my money and time?

I am not going to tell you too much as it is ‘The Sealed Section’ after all… let me just say there is more to you than meets the eye, be prepared to meet her face to face!

• You will never again see the old you, but a new rejuvenated version
• You will shine so bright you will attract your deepest desires
• You will be refreshed, relaxed and rejuvenated
• You will embrace your femininity like never before because you need to in order to have balance
• You will feel like a sexy and own it baby!
• You will develop your own brand of sensuality and live from a new paradigm of woman
• You will have better quality relationships with everyone in your life because you will feel more like yourself, less inhibited and more naturally confident
• You will be transformed, you’ll never go back, you can’t unlearn what you will get
• You will be more successful because you’ll feel it from the inside out
• You will cultivate your GRRR Factor and ‘Own’ it
• You will feel sexually liberated - finally
• You will discover the art of self pleasure
• You will develop authentic friendships, a hidden treasure to your weekend up the mountain
• You will connect with your soul’s centre and love what you find
• You will feel the freedom that comes with letting go of the past
• You will reveal yourself Real and Raw and discover what that really means to you
• You will rediscover who you are after life’s many changes and celebrate being a woman!

Can I bring a friend?

Absolutely, in fact I recommend it because you will be sharing the whole weekend and it’s great to develop such fond memories with your best girls.  Remember the retreat is only for 16 women, so it’s important to pay your deposit early to secure your spaces.

Are we going to get naked and run around singing Kuum-buy-yah?

No, I am afraid not ladies.  There is no nudity - unless of course you want to - anything goes once we are ‘up the mountain’.  There are some revealing elements to the retreat but nothing you can’t handle And it promises to be incredibly fun and liberating… J

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 Why is The Sealed Section a secret?

Well, because of the intimate nature of the experience you will have ‘up the mountain’ we ask that the content be kept a secret so as to not have any preconceived ideas on what experiences you may have.  The reason a woman  may attend is different to another and if you knew what was going to happen, you will be thinking about that, altering how you would play and the element of being Real and Raw and spontaneously yourself, is then removed.  There is more power in the Retreat when it is confidential.  The participants are asked only to talk of the benefits they received from attending and are asked to sign a disclaimer. You integrity in this matter is requested.

Are there courses for men available because my partner could really use this?

Stay tuned there are audio programs on their way for men in the next 6 months.  I get asked this all the time and am working on some great content to put into a course, later in the year or possibly next year.  A couples retreat could loads of fun and games…..

Can I bring my own food, snacks, champagne?

Snacks and chocolates are most welcome (especially if you intend on sharing with me). However, alcohol is not recommended.  The reason is this weekend I am taking you on a soul journey and alcohol inhibits your creativity, your openness and blocks your energy, your body then becomes very preoccupied in processing the toxins.  Best you have a clear mind and learn how to be ‘Real and Raw’ without it….

Will I have to share accommodation with a woman I do not know?

Yes that is very likely.  Unless you invite a friend who you intend on sharing with, the rooms are of a shared nature.  Most rooms have a queen size bed and a single. The Queen bed will be given priority to the woman who booked in first. I expect that after the weekend, you will have great new friends who you will want to stay in touch with, the Retreat is very interactive.

I special dietary requirements, will I be catered for?

Yes, we will cater to gluten free and vegetarians and anything in between.  Please let me know upon booking.  Your meals include desert and you will be very well looked after with yummy treats to eat for each meal.

Could ‘The Sealed Section’ save my marriage or partnership?

Absolutely.  One of my highest personal intentions for The Sealed Section is having women experience themselves so real and raw in a safe environment that they will find it easy to take their relationship to the next level - in every way.  My own marriage failed for many reasons, one of them being my inability to speak my truth about what I really wanted out of my sex life. If you feel you are already uninhibited, then brace yourself ladies, you are about to take it to the next level.  What The Sealed Section could save you is priceless… When are you going to register?

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I am single, is ‘The Sealed Section’ going to help me get a partner?

Yes.  Not by getting you onto RSVP or introducing you to a network of men but by liberating you, building up your innate confidence and giving you permission to be a sensual woman and attract the man of your dreams. Most men surveyed admitted what is sexy and attractive about a woman is her self confidence. Ready to bring it on! Say yes and register now.

Who are our trainers? 

Your Director and Founder of Top Secret Women’s Business is your main facilitator for the weekend.  I have trained extensively in the art of presentations and I promise you an amazing weekend.  In addition to being an experienced and trainer, I have over 5 years of experience as Personal  Performance coach and Business Mentor and have studied coaching methodologies in varying different modalities, including - Hypnosis, Neuro- Linguistic Programming, Precision Re-patterning and Coach Training methods.  I have a cert 4 in Workplace Assessment and Training, Small Business Management and Financial Services.  In addition,  I have been contracting to Chris Howard Companies for the last 2 and half years as a Master Coach. Other experts will be invited to share some time with you, all are of a high calibre and offer you the very best opportunities at what they do.

I don’t feel comfortable talking about sex and my body, are we going to be doing a lot of that?

Yes, you will discover how to get over that guilt and discomfort once and for all and learn how easy  it is to discuss sex openly.  We are going to have so much fun you and I.  And you will hate me then love me for it.

I’ve been sexually abused and am afraid of The Sealed Section, could it really help me?

Yes indeed my love.  One of the reasons I created’ The Sealed Section’ is especially for you. Like about 30% of women, I myself have had to overcome an abuse experience and I promise you, you will overcome it- in a loving, supportive, caring and compassionate environment.  I have a team of experienced professionals to assist if you need to talk to someone privately. You are in safe hands. Set yourself free today and register now.

Please forward any further questions to admin@topsecretwomensbusiness.com

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YOUR EARLY BIRD PRICE IS: $1495 valid only until 30^th June 

 NORMAL PRICE is: $2495 after 30^th June.

• A $420 deposit is required upon registering
• Your Investment is ALL INCLUSIVE - meals, accommodation, 30 minute massage, tuition and other secret bits and pieces….
• All forms of payment are acceptable, Credit Card payments are taken via Paypal, please call me to arrange a payment request
• Direct Debit details are available upon request

 VENUE: Eco Lodge, 198 Barrs Road, Glass House Mountains @ the base of the majestic Mt Tibrogargan. Parking is free http://www.glasshouseecolodge.com 

 DATES:

•  31^st July-2^nd August
•  Check in is at 2.00 start time is 6.30pm Sharp

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For Love or Lust?

Have you ever wondered if you’ve done ‘it’ for love or lust?  Have you ever beaten yourself up after  making ‘that’ decision? Guilt, shame, regret and disappointment are commonly felt emotions for a modern women and I have to ask why?  I know as a single gal and an International Coach, I know that a lot of my single girl clients and even girl friends have expressed their confusion after being with a lover and often berate themself after a fantastic night of tantalising delights. In this article I am going to dispel some of the misconceptions around choosing to have sex and quite possibly put you single girls at ease, being a woman is meant to be easy…. 

There is nothing more liberating then making the decision to lose yourself in a heated sexual experience.  If you’re a single girl, you may have decided at one time or another to go home with a man you just met - commonly referred to as a one night stand but is it really?  So the night goes, you meet a cute man you are attracted to, you have a connection and many things in common which are important to you.  There is the undeniable chemistry that comes with this sort of connection… And then there’s the offer to spend the night together….  What’s a girl to do?

On one hand, you like him and our societal expectation and standards dictate you should not go home with him (or her) on the first date (or night) because you’ll ruin your chances of being taken serious or you’ll be stereo typed or at the very worst end of the scale, branded a slut.  But on the other hand, ‘doing the deed’ is a chance to get to know him further, a greater chance to connect with him and what’s even more, could be a opportunity to have that ‘itch’ scratched and if the decision is made consciously and powerfully, it could be an expression of you being in total control of your wants and needs.  Nothing is sexier than a powerful, confident and decisive woman.

Let’s not forget for one minute, that women have libido’s too and quite often greater drives than a lot of men and sometimes, we like to act on those peaks with a sense of ferociousness.  Are you selling yourself short if you decide not to or are you protecting your chances to see him again and possibly, have him in your life?

Most women have heard of the book, ‘He’s just not into you’.  It goes to say that a man is supposed to chase, put in the effort, take up the challenge to gain her affections and make her feel like a princess and that she is the only woman in the world for him and if he does not do any of that well, then ‘he’s just not that in to you’ and to some extent, I agree.  Who wants a guy that does not make you feel desirable, wanted and needed?  And every woman loves a guy who pursues her, makes her feel desirable and wanted.  So when is the right time to give into some hard core lust? And when is it time to open yourself to love with your new friend?

From my research, there is a great divide for women these days and it is surrounded by loads of confusion as to what the rules are. And men share our confusion.  Neither knows if they should chase or be chased.  Some men expect a ‘liberated’ woman to make the calls and chase them and when they do, they are ‘too needy’ by other standards.  Others will wait for the guy to do the pursuing and spend a lot of time just waiting around for the guys to make the moves.  So what do women really want?  Do we want car doors open for us? Do we really want a man to do the chasing and pursuing? Do men want a woman who is assertive and a go getter and does the initial calling? Or a submissive and patient (while she waits for the call) kind of gal?

So what happens when you spy a gorgeous man in a club, you have a ‘mutual admiration society’ going on with connection and eye contact, lots of smiles and then it’s time for you to leave… You walk passed him and he does nothing.  When you turn around to see if he is coming after you, all he does is smile his big pearly white smile again… And nothing! An opportunity missed or an opportunity to assert yourself?  Should you go back and talk to him or could you assume that if he thought you were that great he’d have come after you and not let you out of his sight?

During my interviews and surveying women (including myself), I discovered that there are two kinds of men. The ones you have lust for and just want to play with and the ones you might want to date (upon further investigation) and fall in love with.  So how does this play out for you?  For love or lust?  Do you make the decision to be with or without based on whether you may or may not see him again.   It could be safe to say, that most modern women have been with a man just for the sake of having him, having some fun or satiating your own desires… So is he the guy you go back and talk to after mutual admiration?  Or is he the man you walk away from because he is a real prospect and someone you want to have chase and pursue you - because he’s really into you?

As women, we need to know a guy will stand up for us, provide security and protection for us…  Remember, we are animals and have primal needs that still need to be fulfilled and when it comes to ‘potential partners’, a woman needs to know her guy will stand up to the challenge - for the sake of our very survival.  It’s fair to say, women have different needs when looking for a partner. Are you certain of what it is you really want?  It could be time to start asking you better quality questions…

• What is it you really want from a man?
• What needs do you have that you want a man to fulfil?
• If love is what you really want, what strategy are you currently using?
• If you are looking to have some of your lustful desires fulfilled, are you going about getting ‘it’ in such a way that empowers you, or are you left feeling deflated, guilty and defeated?
• What kind of sexual conditioning have you been subjected to in your life and how is that playing out now as a pattern that no longer serves you?
• What are you willing to do about that to get a different and more empowering result?
• Do you have expectations of others that are not fulfilled and how are you meeting your own needs?
• What values do you have around love, sex, lust and relationships?

When you start to ask yourself better quality questions and have clarity around what it really is you want, you can start to take control of your life and feel good about whatever you decide, in any case.   It is true you can have your needs for love and lust met in one solid relationship, so what can you do now, that will satiate your heart’s deepest desires and achieve that very thing?

As a single girl open to finding true love, for me, the quality of my decisions leaves me without guilt and regret and always empowered and better for it, no matter what it is.  I make conscious decisions every day that enrich my life and take me closer to the outcomes I seek to fulfil.  What would it take for you to just do it? Or not do it? Whether lust of love wins out in the end, at least you can rest assured you made a powerful decision that gave you want you wanted at the time…

And then, what if he doesn’t call? Well, maybe you made the decision to sleep with him based on the fact that, he would…   Remember the golden rule ladies.  When you have sex with someone you are energetically sharing yourself, a far more intimate part of yourself than just your body, you are sharing your energy, literally.  Your sexual energy lingers (like ethereal cords from you to them) for up to three weeks, attaching you to them through your emotions - Yes this means emotional connection.  So if you choose to go there, choose carefully and for the right reasons.  The right reasons will have you be able to cut and sever the energy more readily if need be. The difference is feeling empowered or disempowered…

Whether it is for lust or love, you deserve to be able to rise above social conditioning and do what you choose, because you’re worth it and because you are an amazingly desirable woman.  Thousands of years ago, women were revered for their sexual prowess, and being sexual with a woman was considered a great honour. Our wisdom and insight was highly valued and with the rise of men in power over centuries, women’s right to experience true sexual liberation (and in some cases even pleasure) has been controlled and diminished. 

Choose to reclaim your goddess sexuality back. Decide to clear yourself of any negative conditioning and understand what it is you want instead… Now is the time to fight for true liberation and own who you are - Real and Raw!  It all starts with just one person and that person is you.  For love or Lust? Does it really matter to anyone but you?  It’s ultimately up to you to decide and for all women to own!

If making open minded decisions about your sexuality is challenging for you and you want to talk to someone who can really assist you to the next level, then please call me.  I specialise in professional change work that encompasses the intimate and private issues surrounding your sexual past and your potential future. Why wait.  1300 88 69 82 Call Janelle today.

Let go of Sexual Conditioning

June’s Bliss Tip

This month’s Bliss Tip is about SENSUALITY!  How do you cultivate it,  live with it and use it so it becomes part of you… And how by sharing your ’sensual self’ makes others feel incredible too. The dictionary meaning of Sensuality is- Gratification of the senses, the state of being sensual, devotion to sensual pleasure.  It appears, over time, women’s sensuality has become extinct or politcally incorrect… Make no mistake, to live from your ‘foundation’ in complete pleasure, is an act of total power.

This month is all about developng your sense of SENSUALITY… Remember, sensuality on a basic level is ’gratification of the senses’, so in short, this means sensuality can be developed in many ways - via your senses.  Sensuality is a deep sense of connectedness  and groundedness with every aspect of you and everything  you do. 

It’s a total awareness of all you are. So here are a few tips to start developing your Sensuality ‘foundations’:  When you eat your next meal, feel the textures and tastes in your mouth, enjoy the aroma of your food and become aware of the way it makes you feel.  Everything you physically touch, again become aware of the textures, the feelings, is it soft or hard?  Move your body with volition, being aware once again of how it feels to move and touch with such awareness… When you develop your own brand of sensuality and own this significant part of who you are, you allow others to see the richness that is you.  Your partner will be mesmerized, your friends grateful and your colleagues serious about doing business with you because this level of unconcsious sensuality reveals your authenticity - a part of you that is Real and Raw…

Drink in the sensations of the incredible differences around you, how your environment looks so inviting, your partners warm musky scent and feel… Allow all of your senses be satiated and fulfilled. Notice that sensuality training is about taking everything around you that is beautiful inward and has nothing to do with sex - yet.  We’ll get to that at your Sealed Section Retreat…. 

Have a great month being a sensual Goddess!