The Sweet Scent of Sensuality

There is much to be said about the uniqueness of a woman’s own brand of sensuality.  You’ve seen a woman like that before and I bet you weren’t sure what it was about her that made her attractive. Maybe she wasn’t traditionally pretty, but there was something luscious and innately confident about her that caught your eye.  Even other women notice a woman that owns who she is.  The sensual one is the one who holds her head high when she walks, she moves with grace and poise and has a depth and intensity about her that is so subtle it goes ‘almost’ unrecognised.

A sensual woman knows who she is and is open to sharing her opinion, her stories and herself, she is real and raw.  Her past is left in the past; she does not waste time on regret, but always learns from her experiences.  As a lover she is generous, saucy, obliging and knows how to make a man feel like a man.  Her soft femininity combined with her sense of knowing drives her man wild - and probably other men also.  She is a temptress, a minx, a cougar and a submissive little she wolf, all rolled into one. 

A sensual woman is acutely aware of her power and her sensuality is the very foundation of her being.  A smooth, smart contender, a sensual woman is a wild woman who runs with the wolves of desire and appeases her yearning heart because she values who she is and what she is forever becoming.  The most important person in the world to a sensual woman is herself.  She understands that everything in her life starts with her, her ability to take care of her own needs, first.  The she wolf knows the intricate nature of her writhing body and so surrenders to her lovers with ease and willingness, she is their teacher.  She trusts, loves and values herself and has no difficulty sharing her voice.   She is a Goddess, hidden in a jungle of office buildings, the one cleaning the house and preparing dinner for her family.  She often hides behind a veil of silver hair or corporate glasses, but she knows the truth of who she really is…

Being a sensual woman, one who ‘owns’ her sensuality and unique style takes some work.  It all starts with developing a loving relationship with yourself.  In order to comprehend this and understand the depth at which this goes, you have to let go of your past, the hurt, pain and blame and heal.  Owning and loving yourself can only be done when you take full responsibility for your life and understand that your ‘every experience up till now’ has shaped and moulded you into the gorgeous goddess you are today.  Once you have cleared the past and taken ownership of you, only then, can you develop your sensuality in the holistic natural way it was meant.

Sensuality involves gratifying all of your senses, becoming completely self aware and aware of your surroundings. It can be likened to living life in expanded awareness. You are completely absorbed in life, how it feel, the exotic aromas of the world, the touch and feel of every texture and taste that surrounds you every day.  Everything you do you do with volition, your  body movements, the way you flick your hair, the way you smile at a stranger walking by.  Your gateway to ‘being’ a sensual woman is self sexing. Make love to your own body. Understand what your desires are and fulfil them, know how far you will go to satiate your own needs and ground yourself with the secret knowledge of how sexy you really are.

The benefit to the rest of the world is enormous, especially to your loving partner.  When you start to bring sexy back into your life by developing your sensuality, you are suddenly more attractive to the opposite sex. Your partner will go nuts over you, his primal urges reigniting and kicking in. The polarity between you is clearer, more defined.  As your innate self confidence increases, your whole life will change. You could experience forward movement in your career, your relationships with family and friends will improve and your health more valued.  Your sex life will explode with new enthusiasm as you surrender to your lover with tender vulnerability because deep down, you know you are in control and standing in your power.

There is nothing more beautiful than a woman who owns her sensuality from the inside out.  I have surveyed many men regarding ‘what makes a woman most sexy to you’ and the most common answer is her confidence, her personality and her curves.  So, unlike what we may be lead to believe through the media, super skinny, pencil thin, blank expressionless gals are not very sexy at all.  If you want to seriously spice up your life, embrace your femininity and celebrate being a real woman, then it is high time you pimp up your sensual side and start living a rich and fulfilled life.

A woman is most powerful when she has sensuality as her foundation. (C)

Janelle Manton

Director and Founder

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