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Alcohol and Intimacy are not Friends!

Alcohol and Intimacy are not Friends!

Sep 9, 2010

I loved my husband so much, we were close, happy and had a great time in our ten years of marriage… In the early days our fun was very social, it revolved around spending time with friends in exotic locations, Hawaii, Monterey California to name a few. We had many nights enjoying house parties, dinner parties, Sunday’s by the pool, we had a great...

Are you a Goddess?

Are you a Goddess?

May 18, 2010

When I think about being Real and Raw, I think of a woman walking down the road – we’ve all seen her… Perhaps she not really even that traditionally ‘pretty’ or incredibly well dressed or that fit and toned but oh my Goddess, I’ll never forget the look in her eyes… The look that says, “I know who I am and I’m...

One Flaw in Women

Women have strengths that amaze men….. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in.. They stand up to injustice. They don’t take...

Sex and Emotional Attachment

Can women have sex with a man and not get emotionally involved?  And when is the right time to have sex with someone you meet…? Is there a right time?  Are women really capable of detaching from our emotional nature in order to have a short term win in the form of a one night stand or a ‘friends with benefits’ kind of relationship without...

For Love or Lust?

There is nothing more liberating then making the decision to lose yourself in a heated sexual experience.  If you're a single girl, you may have decided at one time or another to go home with a man you just met - commonly referred to as a one night stand but is it really?  So the night goes, you meet a cute man you are attracted to, you have a connection and many things in common which are important to you.  There is the undeniable chemistry that comes with this sort of connection... And then there's the offer to spend the night together....  What's a girl to do?


I’m in love with your Ghost

God bless the Indigo Girls for the lyrics of their song ‘Ghost’ as it provides a doorway for me to feel the presence of my grief and love for my father.  The 25th of June this year is a very special day, as it marks the 10 year anniversary of my father’s death.  He was taken from us by the mysterious dark cloud of Cancer. I watched it carry him away bit by painful bit. In the past ten years I have developed my own understanding of grief and how it evolves and have also grown to be in love with my father’s ghost!

He left me with the most powerful gift of love and faith.....